Colour carries a lot of different messages of which we do not often notice,  with each affecting us emotionally and mentally. Black has always been deemed to be the colour of pain and sorrow, but black also reflects POWER and CONTROL. In most journeys to happiness, adversities are always paved along the way, and through ours we fell in love with the two colours; Black And White. Black to  us reflect self-control, discipline and strength, with white offering peace and calm during emotional upsets and purifies your thoughts.

According to Paul T.P Wong; Adversity is an opportunity for creativity, because it  forces one to dig deeper and discover something new about themselves. Well here, allow us to take you on our not so newly discovered but revived journey.


Enough yapping, back to Black and White; With these two colours you do not have to worry about the them matching, they go very well together, and are a powerful force. We have fallen in love with these colours as they can be a rescue to you  during  busy days or undecided mornings. You can never go wrong with these two, they gives a chic, edgy and more professional look and they are flattering and appealing to the eye.

Outfits – @Stradivarius Shoes – @Primark
Outfit – @Stradivarius Shoes -Primark and Dunnes
1. T-Shirts – @Bershka and NewLook          2.Shoes -Primark and Dunnes        3.Skirts -@Primark
1.Outfit – @Stradivarius                    2.Shoes – @Primark

We hope you enjoyed this short read and already planning your black and white outfit.






Styling for special occasions is one of our obsessions, and we have the love for simplicity and elegant clean looks. Nothing that hurts the eyes.
Even though we wear pants in most ossasions, there is nothing beautiful than investing in a pretty skirt.

Skirts are a clever buy as there are many ways you can style them to achieve different looks. We fell in love with the pleated skirts the very first time we laid our eyes on them, we couldn’t get our eyes off them. Like any fashionista we thought why not buy 3 each. That’s months and months ago. Fall season is time for longer skirts, jumpers and put on a few layers, so we thought why not pull one of the pleatted skirts as it will be pretty cool and and trendy. Yes we achieved it, the cool look. The looks were for Sunday service and not for any special event, just a normal Sunday.

IMG-20171106-WA0008Elegant and clean cut for one colour outfit is  perfect for any special occasion or girls day out, it is not loud . All dusty pink look 🔥🔥🔥🔥.

Details : *Skirt @Beshka  ,*Coat @Forever21, *Top and*Shoes @Primark



Nice and simple look. This look can also look casual when put together with sneakers. The green skirt and with Mickey T-Shirt gives the outfit an edge and makes the look glow. Beautiful 🍁🔥.

Detail : *Skirt @Beshka, *T-Shirt and *Shoes @Primark

All the photos were taken at Mountjoy Square Park, Dublin Ireland.

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Hey are you Tshepho or Tshephiso? Which one are you? Where is your twin sister? Often these are the questions we get when we bump into someone when anyone of us is running errands on their own. Do we have to be together all the time, as twins we thought we would be used to these questions but it is not all that. People often forget that we are more than just twins but two individuals.

IMG-20170527-WA0011[1]The world is fascinated by twins and people often wish they could switch places just for a day and experience a day in twinhood. When people meet us for the first time and realise that we are twins, it arouses a lot of questions, who is the oldest? Do you enjoy being twins? Do you ever fight? The list is endless but the most frustrating question is what would you do if one of you passes on? Senseless!!

When we came to realise in our teen years that the most common asked questions was who is the oldest, we pleaded with our parents not to reveal the information to us. This was to help create individualism among us and avoid twin rivalry, to look at ourselves as individuals rather than as a set of twins. No matter what theory you bring in to tell who is the oldest or youngest, we don’t buy it, never had never will.

“You guys need to find your individualism.” (Like some friends would say) Finding our own individualism was never an easy path. Like the saying goes, never judge a book by its cover, before start making assumptions it is okay to get to know the real us. Yes we have a great bond, you know  we spent our first nine months cramped up in a “small apartment” you can’t get any closer than that. Our bond shouldn’t block people from getting to know us.


Not always do I look at myself as a twin, I know I am different from my sister. My character, personality and preferences are different form hers. Finding my own individuality has never been easy because there are moments where twinship has to be nurtured. Not thinking for yourself alone, and again some actions are natural, sometimes acting in the same manner and talking at the same time. We have grown to understand that we are two unique individuals, so should other people. -Tshephiso-


In many cases we are looked at and addressed as one, in the past when having group discussion the coordinator would say “only one speak for the both of you.” Like hello! We are two individuals with different opinions, why exclude the other. We often get mixed up, even by the system hahah, funny right???!!! As much as we love being twins we would also love to be addressed as singletons, our sense of style, characters are totally different. What makes it hard to maintain our individualism is the people around us that continue to address us as one, like say when my sister gets an invite automatically I got it! “You know, she knows.” What they often say but that shouldn’t be the case. -Tshepho-

We get to be addressed as a collective unit a lot, funny enough each one of us as “half of a twin unit” and not individuals. Okay fine, we have come to embrace that, we are Dithebe twins, FACT! Nonetheless People still need to understand that we are two individuals, we are not obsessed with twinship. We are Tshepho and Tshephiso, two unique individuals.

From early childhood, individualism has been encouraged among us we have been apart for most of the time and had separate friends, and from grade one to seven we were in different classes, one of us was in the morning session and the other in the afternoon. What made finding our individualism difficult growing up was that most our mates in secondary school did not call us by our names but rather by our last name, Dithebe or twin one and twin two. Our social studies teacher even called us Mickeys and the name got stuck with us and we still get to be called by it. Having traveled separately and spent two years apart from one another in different countries has helped us develop our individuality. We are UNIQUE and UNIQUE.


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Women Empowering Women:  The encouragement and empowerment of women is an effective tool for the development of the society.


From woman to woman, acknowledging your colleague’s work can help them become better versions of themselves. We are all created differently and each and every one of us has something unique to bring to the table. Nothing paints my soul than seeing women smiling and complimenting one another, coming together as one and help ignite the little spark in each other, lighting it up and letting it shine is the world best thing a woman can do for another.

How good and pleasant it is when God’s people live in unity. (Psalms 133:1) Working with these women is an honour; their commitment and dedication to their work bring nothing but smiles and hope for a better future, a great example to  our future generation. Our uniform reflects unity, commitment and good communication, we take PRIDE in that.  A beautiful team of ladies made up of 4 women from Malawi, (Rejoice, Liz, Esmie & Hannah), 3 from South Africa (Denga, Pamela & Cindy) and 2 from Botswana  (Tshepho & Tshephiso)

1 Corinthians 1:10

10: I appeal to you, brothers and sisters, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you agree with one another in what you say and there be no division among you, but that you be perfectly united in mind and thoughts.


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“Never stop learning as life never stops teaching”

We had the privilege to attend HIV and listening on the 11th Saturday facilitated by Richard Carson and Vivienne Morrow-Murtagh of ACET.

It was a very interesting and interactive seminar giving everyone an opportunity to share their stories, views and experiences. The facilitators delivered well. During the seminar we had to pair and play mirror with a partner, that involved listening and reflecting back what your partner said to show that you were listening to them.


We attended the seminar as we believe that learning does not stop from having Degrees or Masters in line with career choices but to learn more things in life once given the chance. This broadens one’s life skills and ways of interacting with people from different areas of life.


It was a beautiful and informative day. ❤❤

Denim and White – The perfect pair!

The perfect pair! So effortless and yet so chic, classy and smart. DENIM and WHITE!


Denim, a fashion item one should have in their closet. It is very easy to incorporate it with other colours and fashion materials. SIMPLICITY is the BEST; you can never go wrong with a mix of Denim and White! Mix it up and keep it Simple!


You can wear denim all year round be it boyfriend, mommy or skinny jeans. We love denim more in Spring and Summer seasons. For summer go for a lighter or dusty colour so it doesn’t stand out than other items paired with. White as pure as snow together with denim its a winner! ❤


The look is so fashionable and never gets dated. Tshepho .

Skirt  & Top : H&M

Shoes & Neck-piece : Primark


I could do with Denim and White all day everyday! Tshephiso 

Top : H&M

Skirt : Forever21

Shoes & Neck-piece : Primark

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You are Worth it!


We thought we write a small self confidence boost piece and remind many of you of something that you do not often get to be told. That is you are WORTH IT!! Have you ever felt like you are alone, lost, overshadowed, unnoticed or even worthless then this small piece is for you. You deserve to be happy, loved and appreciated. Stop worrying about people telling you that you cannot do it or you are not beautiful, they are only trying to make you feel worthless and pull you down.


It is time you realize that you are worth more than you credit yourself. Do not compare yourself with the rest of the world, life is not a competition. Once you realize your worth everything will fall in place. We are created uniquely for a purpose. Look yourself in the  mirror everyday and say I am beautiful, I am worth it. Do not be afraid to do and give yourself all the things you’ve always wanted in life. Stop making excuses and say I will try tomorrow, now is the time.


Love yourself, be positive, love people around and who know your worth and appreciate you for who you are, most importantly KNOW YOUR WORTH!! You are worth it!!

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